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Which is More Important...BEAUTY on the *Inside* or *Outside*?...Queen Latifah or Naomi Campbell???
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 Posted: Thursday April 26th, 2007 19:18

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***YOU MUST CHOOSE ONE...CONSIDER IT A MULTIPLE CHOICE TEST WHERE YOU MUST CHOOSE "THE BEST ANSWER...***


This is an infallible scientifically controlled test of what kind of man you are and what is more important...beauty on the inside or outside.

My brothers, you have between 2 choices, Queen Latifah or Naomi Campbell to make a wife for yourself.  Neither of them are ugly on the outside, but Naomi's outside beauty is considered far greater than Latifah's.  Then with Queen Latifah's weight, it typically pushes her even further down the beauty ladder.  As for the inside, Naomi is a notorious bytch, while Latifah has been said to be a beautiful person with her past songs calling for "Unity" in our community and speaking out against using the denigrating words "bytch" and "ho" to describe our sisters.

So who would you pick...



Are the brothers here brave enough to reveal your choices, thereby revealing the level of superficiality of your values, to the Village?

Last edited on Friday April 27th, 2007 13:01 by Shemsi en Tehuti



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 Posted: Thursday April 26th, 2007 19:45

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 Posted: Thursday April 26th, 2007 20:08

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Footprints wrote: Dream On blkbrukteet


What's that supposed to mean?  Do you already have a preconception of our brothers' values?



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 Posted: Thursday April 26th, 2007 20:15

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most guys would probably say neither and name you a third unlisted option.



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 Posted: Thursday April 26th, 2007 20:40

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Madam Butterfly wrote: most guys would probably say neither and name you a third unlisted option.


I'm saying that they do not have that option...they MUST choose between these two.  This is what makes the determination more scientific...because we have certain attributes as almost polar-opposites for isolation.



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 Posted: Thursday April 26th, 2007 20:47

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so the choice is nice fat girl or nasty pretty girl confused3 >>and some guys on BN would tell you they don't find Naomi that attractive, or have seen better on the 36 bus!!<<



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 Posted: Thursday April 26th, 2007 21:06

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Inner beauty...but only after doing the rounds in the sack with the outer beauty. Ah babylon we deh...we CAN have our cakes and eat it...and that's not a referral to all you pu$$y munchers out there:)



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 Posted: Thursday April 26th, 2007 21:17

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I believe the choice was EITHER, OR.  NOT both!!  and what happens when you want to marry outer ugly, but outer pretty rocks up to your place carrying your child, how do you go abput explaining those cake crumbs?!!?



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 Posted: Thursday April 26th, 2007 21:55

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Madam Butterfly wrote: so the choice is nice fat girl or nasty pretty girl confused3 >>and some guys on BN would tell you they don't find Naomi that attractive, or have seen better on the 36 bus!!<<


It is perhaps the only way to isolate which value is more important to a man.  We all want the best mix we can find of both qualities good looks and personality, but to answer the question of which is more important to a man (which comes up quite often here at BNV), then I feel it must be done this way to say which is truly more valued by a man.

By the way, even if guys don't find Naomi that attractive, most find her far more appealing than Latifah so it is still a good comparison for the aforementioned purposes.niceone.gif

 



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 Posted: Friday April 27th, 2007 05:32

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ow do you know the wueen is beautiful on the inside



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 Posted: Friday April 27th, 2007 07:50

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Shemsi en Tehuti wrote: Footprints wrote: Dream On blkbrukteet


What's that supposed to mean?  Do you already have a preconception of our brothers' values?

My brothers, you have between 2 choices, Queen Latifah or Naomi Campbell to make a wife for yourself. 

 

What century are you from brother?



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 Posted: Friday April 27th, 2007 11:49

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don't you ever get tired of dissin heavier women?

you should have ditched the celeb comparisons and called the thread what it is: Who would you choose? the skinny chick or the fat b**ch.



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 Posted: Friday April 27th, 2007 11:54

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Footprints wrote: Shemsi en Tehuti wrote: Footprints wrote: Dream On blkbrukteet


What's that supposed to mean?  Do you already have a preconception of our brothers' values?

My brothers, you have between 2 choices, Queen Latifah or Naomi Campbell to make a wife for yourself. 

 

What century are you from brother?



It's hypothetical, as if they had the liberty to choose between only these two women.



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Soulstarr wrote: don't you ever get tired of dissin heavier women?

you should have ditched the celeb comparisons and called the thread what it is: Who would you choose? the skinny chick or the fat b**ch.



When have a dissed heavier women?  This isn't a dis at all.  It is a test to see who people would choose...inner or outer beauty.



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Shemsi en Tehuti wrote: Soulstarr wrote: don't you ever get tired of dissin heavier women?

you should have ditched the celeb comparisons and called the thread what it is: Who would you choose? the skinny chick or the fat b**ch.



When have a dissed heavier women?  This isn't a dis at all.  It is a test to see who people would choose...inner or outer beauty.

Oh please. This is so thinly veiled its practically transparent! Anyway, who decided what is outer beauty? I thought society was advanced enough to realise that they didn't have to conform to sterotypes anymore.

Guess I was wrong.



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Queen Latifah is a lesbian and Naomi don't like black man - hypothetical or not you couldn't have chosen two worst candidates!



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Naomi is far too crazy to be anyone's wife (for long).

QL, well she just ain't my type.

Guess that leaves me a bachelor then. :)



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 Posted: Friday April 27th, 2007 12:59

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Soulstarr wrote: Oh please. This is so thinly veiled its practically transparent! Anyway, who decided what is outer beauty? I thought society was advanced enough to realise that they didn't have to conform to sterotypes anymore.

Guess I was wrong.



Ok, I apologize if this thread is offensive to you.  I agree that a larger woman can be deemed just as beautiful by some, but reality is that most view slimmer women as more attractive.  I am going off of popular opinion in this thread.  It isn't meant to offend...so don't take it that serious sis...



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stick-upKid wrote: Naomi is far too crazy to be anyone's wife (for long).

QL, well she just ain't my type.

Guess that leaves me a bachelor then. :)



You have to pick one!!!!



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 Posted: Friday April 27th, 2007 14:39

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***YOU MUST CHOOSE ONE...CONSIDER IT A MULTIPLE CHOICE TEST WHERE YOU MUST CHOOSE "THE BEST ANSWER...***


This is an infallible scientifically controlled test of what kind of man you are and what is more important...beauty on the inside or outside.

My brothers, you have between 2 choices, Queen Latifah or Naomi Campbell to make a wife for yourself.  Neither of them are ugly on the outside, but Naomi's outside beauty is considered far greater than Latifah's.  Then with Queen Latifah's weight, it typically pushes her even further down the beauty ladder.  As for the inside, Naomi is a notorious bytch, while Latifah has been said to be a beautiful person with her past songs calling for "Unity" in our community and speaking out against using the denigrating words "bytch" and "ho" to describe our sisters.

So who would you pick...

 

Are the brothers here brave enough to reveal your choices, thereby revealing the level of superficiality of your values, to the Village?



 
Maybe this could have been a better comparison one is sexy and the other is well uhmmm beautiful on the inside (it is VERY wrong of you  S&T to ASSUME that all  fat people are all beautiful on the inside - you are the people Tyra was talking about who go around making fat people become bulimic to fit your little moulds  - thats why some people will take immediate offense on this thread it is too obvious or should I say "transparent" to use SS word.)



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CashMoney wrote: ow do you know the wueen is beautiful on the inside


Good question.even though Latifah is the home girl.....and reps New Jersey to the fullest......

she's had her run ins with the law also....got caught with guns and weed in her car and  a DUI(not rumor....fact)

http://media.http://www.thebatt.com/media/storage/paper657/news/2003/01/16/NewsInBrief/Queen.Latifah.Pleads.No.Contest.To.Reckless.Driving-515211.shtml

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To answer the question though..i'd pick Naomi Campbell....

Latifah has NO sex appeal whatsoever.....and after the breast reduction......she has even less.


Any ladies that are offended, that wasn't the intention...just my honest take.



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There seems to be an automatic assumption that Naomi is less of a nice person that Dana.  I'm not so sure.  The assumption that more attractive people have not so nice personalities is flawed, as is the opposite one that less attractive people are more pleasant.



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 Posted: Friday April 27th, 2007 18:11

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no disrespect Shemsi, but this thread is kind of pointless.  Male or female, folks tend to be shallow.  No one is going to choose a fat or ugly nice girl/guy when they can have someone attractive regardless of their personality.

Its only after a few times of being burned by pretty girl/pretty guy types who turn out to be nasty that people start looking a lil deeper at the choices they make.  And by then they are probably in their mid thirties with the benefit of maturirty experience and hind sight and looking for more then eye/are candy in a relationship.

Of course you will always get the sad old git still chasing the pretty skirt, but now he needs to flash the cash or be seen in a nice car.  Similarly you get women in their 40's acting/dressing like young women in their 20's still chasing the pretty boy types!!

Plus few people will gladly admit to being shallow!!



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I'm happy to admit I'm shallow....ish.






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 Posted: Friday April 27th, 2007 18:18