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Posted: Saturday April 14th, 2007 20:20 |
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At my work place they finally hired this black girl to work on the tills, she must be 22 years old. The shop is not very big we have about 3-4 tills available for when the shop gets busy. Now I’ve been working in that place for 1 year now and the management team has be completely replaced. The last guy was not, to put it bluntly, doing his f**king job properly. They would sit up stairs drinking f**king tea and leaving us to f**king sort out the delivery. Anyway them suckers are gone and the new guy is o.k. does everything to the book. I must say and give credit where credits do, and the guy is f**king nice too. The new guy runs the shop like a well-oiled machine.  Nothing is going wrong and when the area manager turned up one time he said he came in and walked straight out again, thinking he walked into a different shop by mistake. It was that good. Now when my new manger told me this I was well pleased. Dam right to be to, because we all worked our butts off. But me I was especially satisfied and beating my chest too. And to top it all off that white witch that smokes pot 24/7 is gone and her nasty crew too! 
Now I’m living a dream, because not only do I have a good team leader and management but a f**king positive workforce too. I turn up to work with a smile and not a f**king frown. Believe me the day I heard them suckers got thrown out, because they where basically f**king sh*t, it felt like a 50 Kg weight fell off my shoulders. It was that nice of news and when some of the new staff asked me about them, what do you think I told them? That’s right and beating my chest too! 
Now you would not believe me but this black girl is the nastiest woman I have ever met, I actually believe she has no house training! I’m standing there packing some shopping and my girl says “hi babe how you doing� to this home delivery driver who just come in.  and I swear by the lord alone this women did not even know this man and she’s asking him questions like that, and this is her first day too. Now a man like me would not be interested in what this young black skinny ass black girl got to say. But I’m a man that observe the situation and makes moves like a military planner without even saying a word, how do you think I’m survived for 1 & a half years at this joint? Now that’s not even the most disturbing thing about this black girl. She talks to all the white employees like she’s f**king them. I mean like she is f**king them for real.  She hasn’t even said two words to me since she started working there and I wish not to even say a single word to her. Because at the end of the day who the f**k does she think she is? A princess from a kingdom far far away?
The other day the home delivery driver whistled at her to shake her ass about, and she did and she was calling him babe and everything. But I don’t know why she is so kind and friendly with the white employees I mean why does she look at me with eyes of thunder. Girl I haven’t even done anything to you and you look vexed? And this is the first black girl that has come to work for us. There have been many brothers that have worked with us, and I must say they have held their own against the monster of white cooperate scum, friendly too.
But this girl makes me want to break my two foot on her ass instantaneously. I’ve never done anything to this girl, and she acts like a complete b**ch when she’s around me, and so cold too, like a blizzard has just blown in, and it’s nearly summer time. I found out form one of my male colleague that she’s pregnant. I was shocked at first and then we laughed it off and joked, I even accused him of farthing the baby, and he laughed harder.  Because at the end of the day she will pass into the dustbin of retail employees and leave the job soon, I would be surprised if she stays for another month. Bwoy let me tell you this woman is pure ugliness, and to think I help get her a job and my workplace, darn some humans can be unappreciative whores sometimes. and this girl has mashed up my once unstoppable flow. the white males think she's low class! 
Brothers have you had a bad experience with a black female workers? And why are they so cold and darn right ugly when they see you? Any thoughts??Last edited on Saturday April 14th, 2007 20:36 by BIG L
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Posted: Saturday April 14th, 2007 20:48 |
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| Was going to say she fancies you before the pregnant part. Anyway, maybe she has been burnt by Black men in the past, maybe you look like her unborn baby's daddy maybe she feels more comfortable conversing with white folk. Anyway, best to try not to watch what she is doing too much - get on with the job you are being paid to do, and step. Simple.
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Posted: Saturday April 14th, 2007 21:41 |
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Im not being funny Big L but you come across to me as someone who has a problem with women. The last thread you started was about how Black men have it tough in todays society more so than Black women. You seem to start these threads with the purpose of dividing men and women and starting WW3. The majority of men vs women threads normally do.
Maybe this colleague of yours doesnt speak to you because of the vibes you give off towards her?? If you have all these thoughts in your head of her being ugly and a whore (in my opinion that is very harsh) then you must be translating that in the way you look at her or your body language towards her. Just a thought. You sound like you really dislike almost hate her and because she flirts with guys and ignores you?? to find out if she does dislike you, man up and talk to her then if she actually point blank ignores you then you know she is rude. Then you can move on, its just job you there to make money not friends...
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Posted: Saturday April 14th, 2007 21:57 |
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| we all know these people at work... I've seen them many times. Like they're scared to talk to the other black people there for fear of what white folks think. They don't want to be seen to be friendly with you. Sheeet... I've seen them in uni
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Posted: Saturday April 14th, 2007 22:10 |
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The Watcher wrote: we all know these people at work... I've seen them many times. Like they're scared to talk to the other black people there for fear of what white folks think. They don't want to be seen to be friendly with you. Sheeet... I've seen them in uni
Stop making things up.....i always say hello to you at Uni whenever i see you...you is tellin tales...
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Posted: Saturday April 14th, 2007 22:22 |
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Silly billy how was I talking about you?
I was actually thinking of a dude I'm sure I told you about who went out of his way in the first semester of the first year to avoid the black people in the lectures and tutorial groups. A tricky task since most of the engineering faculty is black but he managed anyway lol. Now most of us don't business because at uni I talk to all or nobody. I get on with the Russians, the Chinese and so on. But when somebody is so conspicous about not wanting to talk to, sit near, do group work with, eat with a particulur group it's easy to see. When it's a black dude who doesn't want to associate with other black guys it's so blatant we just shake our heads in amusement and write him off as "one of them ones" lol
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Posted: Saturday April 14th, 2007 22:42 |
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Why doesn't she like you?
I don't know, perhaps she read your "When is it okay to beat a woman" thread. Teeheeheehee ...
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Posted: Sunday April 15th, 2007 12:22 |
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The Watcher wrote: we all know these people at work... I've seen them many times. Like they're scared to talk to the other black people there for fear of what white folks think. They don't want to be seen to be friendly with you. Sheeet... I've seen them in uni
This is so true and i can back it up with many stories and bore you to death with them and near miss i had with black girls at my current uni. but i will give you one example and let me tell you why.
on my engineering course there are other 2 black males, and one is from Nigeria the other African American. And we all get on well. the Nigeria is a bit fall of himself sometimes but that's to be expected since Nigerians think they own Africa. We cuss each other, but it's just harmless fun, and we know the red line not to cross..ect. We help each other when it comes to course work and exam preparations. it's like one happy family, and believe I’ve leant some things about Nigeria that otherwise would of been ignorant about.
on the uni campus i'm mostly in the library and studying real hard as an engineering degree is no joke, and enuff men have dropped out because they simply can't hack it. when i was sitting my first year engineering math’s exam, just two tables up from my right was this white European lad, just sitting their not even writing a single word. i was shocked, because theirs me thinking this dude was a f**king genius. i spoke to him after the exam and he said basically i'm doing this course because of my farther and i don't really like it. i was stunned beyond belief, which from that point onwards shattered my belief in these European lads can do maths, which is a complete joke watching that lad throw away one years work right their in that 2 hour exam. i believe they just give them grades when in secondary school to encourage them to go to university, and basically pump them up with hot air and falsehood and make believe. At the same time pushing the young black kids down a barrel of a gun, and fill them with hopelessness and propaganda.
I was in the library using the photocopier and this very attractive black girl walked passed, I look up and man she was fine as hell. But me I’m a well-disciplined man and would never enter into uncharted waters without a map. So I continued to use the copier only to find my girl standing their right behind me. from the shear shock I nearly swallowed my own tongue, we talked for a bit and she said she has a boyfriend, not hard to imagine why. I left so she could use the copier. Theirs me thinking black girls don’t talk to me or other brothers. the other day I saw her with a white male kissing and holding hands and it’s a dude I know from one of the other modules we take together. They both walked pass me, the white boy said hi and she said nothing…just eyeballed me right their. One time when I caught her in the lunch queue she said nothing completely ignoring me like we had never met or talked. Don’t bother me because I’m not the one sucking white cock. 
There is this one black girl my mate was telling me about and the amount of times she given him the evil eye. And this guy only shares like two classes with her and she’s acting like half her family got murdered by the hands of this collage student. Very funny stories and all true because I have seen it with my own eyes. It’s like Drama without words and it drives some of the males mad. Let me tell you this one time an African student came from over seas to continue his electrical engineering degree and we where all sitting their eating lunch. And my man here starts talking about why all the British black girls or the ones that live here acting very strange. They never seem to talk to us or even engage in a conversation with us. You could see my man was pulling his hair over this. One of the brothers gave him a beautiful explanation about the social dynamics in this country and why so many black folks have gone silent. My man was so shocked that wanted to jump straight out of the window and leg it back to Africa, and f**k this place. Because in Africa everybody talks to anybody and that’s the cultural norms. Not in Britain and many black people have taken up this white man practice like a new age religion thing.
This is not the only time TW, their have been many many others, that have happened to me especially during the first year at uni. It’s like a plague and their no cure.
@ blessingfromgod
no honey I don’t think she was burnt by black men in the past. Because did I forget to leave out the part of who is the real farther? The dude is a white boy and I’ve seen him when one time when he came into the store.
@ BBF182
I don’t believe I have given out bad vibs before. I’m actually an easy person to talk to. Even this far eastern Asian girl talked to me. And she was as silent as a mouse when she first started, about the same time as the black girl. 
@ Aryek
please sister don’t come in my thread with the intention of deliberately trying to sabotage my thread with you emotional baggage. Please go back to the shrink you have been seeing. Because I believe the good doctor has not addressed your tantrums and door slamming yet.
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Posted: Sunday April 15th, 2007 20:16 |
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@ Big L
Appologies if my observations are off the mark, but I get the impression that you personally have not had a good time of it with black women.
I mean, the fact that you have many stories to tell about the 'near misses' you have had with black girls at your Uni and now the torment with this lone black female (the first one hired ever) at your work place all paint a daunting picture of a species created for no other purpose than to reign down misery and pain upon your life.
This thread is not the only example of apparent issues you seem to have with the 'fairer sex'. I really hope you are not a serial killer in the making.............and trust me, that is not meant as joke.
It is not that in your accounts of "Women From Hell", you say things which 'the average black man cannot relate to on some level or other. It is just that the way you do it suggests underlying feelings of resentment, and even venom, towards these 'tormentors of your soul'.
Look brother, I myself can recount experiences (I doubt as many as you) of black women who wouldn't win my 'female of the week' award and who I wish I had the power to turn into any colour other than 'chocolate brown' so that people would not associate them with the race of women I believe to be second to none in this world. However, these experiences are no way near significant enough to make me feel deterred by the prospect of meeting and getting to know the fine specimen of womanhood which I believe the African woman to be.
Women like the one at your work are, for me, very much in the minority, and I could never see them being such a stain upon my spirit that I would feel the need to Call On All Black Men, like some desperate call of the wild, to warn them of this scourge on our peaceful existence.
I really doubt this 'woman' at your work place gives you half as much thought as you appear to give her, (does she know as much about your personal life?) or allow her existence to be marred by the knowledge that you exist. I would even suggest that you weld zero power over her.
Some advice.....don't let her, or those of her ilk (which are not the epitome of black womanhoo) weld as much power over you as you are currently allowing them to.
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Posted: Sunday April 15th, 2007 20:25 |
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Oh and one other thing Big L.
The subtitle of your thread reads "Drama at the workplace with black women ", yet your account is about the experience with this one black woman (who appears to be the first employed at your work since you have been there).
One could get the impression from that title that 'workplace drama with black women was a common occurrence in your experience'.
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Posted: Sunday April 15th, 2007 21:41 |
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i find it somewhat ironic that a man who dislikes Black women, is upset when a Black woman dislikes hims. Especially when said woman is, in his opinion, rude and unattractive. If she is so damn rude and unattractive, is she someone you would WANT to associate with? If not, why do you care so much? enough to make a whole thread about it?
Maybe she caught your "vibe" of disrespect and dislike of black women, and simply threw it back to you, so to speak. You may THINK you were being polite/helpful etc, but so much can be said with body language, facial expression and tone of voice.
you wrote Now a man like me would not be interested in what this young black skinny ass black girl got to say.
you also wrote I was in the library using the photocopier and this very attractive black girl walked passed, I look up and man she was fine as hell. But me I’m a well-disciplined man and would never enter into uncharted waters without a map. So I continued to use the copier only to find my girl standing their right behind me. from the shear shock I nearly swallowed my own tongue, we talked for a bit and she said she has a boyfriend, not hard to imagine why.
so you interacted with these two Black women in completely different ways based on how they looked and your relative attraction to them. Yet on further investigation you discovered that they had some glaring similarities.
What i am about to say goes for anybody, myself included: before you want to make a harsh judgment about anybody pertaining to their character or the way they come at you, try thinking about how they may be perceiving YOU first. What prejudices are you bringing to the interaction that may affect how the person interacts with YOU.
The first girl you already said you didn;t find attractive. you went on to say she was rude and unfriendly. The second one however, you did find atteractive and you went on to have a pleasant conversation with her, until you discovered that her man was white.
So check you body language, tone and facial expression, especially when interacting with Black women, as this seems to be who you have a problem with. No matter what words are coming out of your mouth, you would be amazed at how much else you are saying, esp if you already generally have a low opinion of and respect for Black women (unless you happen to find them attrative )
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Posted: Sunday April 15th, 2007 21:53 |
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Madam Butterfly wrote: i find it somewhat ironic that a man who dislikes Black women, is upset when a Black woman dislikes hims. Especially when said woman is, in his opinion, rude and unattractive. If she is so damn rude and unattractive, is she someone you would WANT to associate with? If not, why do you care so much? enough to make a whole thread about it?
Maybe she caught your "vibe" of disrespect and dislike of black women, and simply threw it back to you, so to speak. You may THINK you were being polite/helpful etc, but so much can be said with body language, facial expression and tone of voice.
you wrote Now a man like me would not be interested in what this young black skinny ass black girl got to say.
you also wrote I was in the library using the photocopier and this very attractive black girl walked passed, I look up and man she was fine as hell. But me I’m a well-disciplined man and would never enter into uncharted waters without a map. So I continued to use the copier only to find my girl standing their right behind me. from the shear shock I nearly swallowed my own tongue, we talked for a bit and she said she has a boyfriend, not hard to imagine why.
so you interacted with these two Black women in completely different ways based on how they looked and your relative attraction to them. Yet on further investigation you discovered that they had some glaring similarities.
What i am about to say goes for anybody, myself included: before you want to make a harsh judgment about anybody pertaining to their character or the way they come at you, try thinking about how they may be perceiving YOU first. What prejudices are you bringing to the interaction that may affect how the person interacts with YOU.
The first girl you already said you didn;t find attractive. you went on to say she was rude and unfriendly. The second one however, you did find atteractive and you went on to have a pleasant conversation with her, until you discovered that her man was white.
So check you body language, tone and facial expression, especially when interacting with Black women, as this seems to be who you have a problem with. No matter what words are coming out of your mouth, you would be amazed at how much else you are saying, esp if you already generally have a low opinion of and respect for Black women (unless you happen to find them attrative)
Can the church say AMEN?! This assessment is sooo spot on it's unreal.
This has to be post of the day.
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Posted: Sunday April 15th, 2007 22:39 |
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no honey I don’t think she was burnt by black men in the past. Because did I forget to leave out the part of who is the real farther? The dude is a white boy and I’ve seen him when one time when he came into the store.
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Posted: Monday April 16th, 2007 01:08 |
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Backatya wrote: @ Big L
Women like the one at your work are, for me, very much in the minority, and I could never see them being such a stain upon my spirit that I would feel the need to Call On All Black Men, like some desperate call of the wild, to warn them of this scourge on our peaceful existence.
LOL!! Damn this thread is funny..like the man says Big L you have time..plenty black devils out there.. and trust me in the workplace its not gender specific.
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Posted: Monday April 16th, 2007 11:11 |
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| Big L...she sounds like a nightmare to work with, but I was expecting to hear you and her had a big run in or something like she was giving you greif.....is it the fact that she is "overly friendly" with the White male staff , that bothers you?
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Posted: Monday April 16th, 2007 11:33 |
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You are trying to make excuses for behavior 30 years ago would be considered alien in black communities. Could you turn back the clock 30 years and say the same thing? no because in those days black people use to love each other and work together as a team, greet each other in the street..ect. Not today, you would be hard pressed to find this type of community sprint among black folks in the U.K I don’t know the U.S. it’s a well know fact today and not many people would ague with me when I say this, that living in the west has eroded away our culture and identify to the point that even have a crises on our hands and a sudden void to fill. The situation is so bad in London that black folks even catch you looking at them will f**king take your life from you in a big arse gang beating. It doesn’t even have to be looking anymore, you can accidentally step on the next mans shoe and boom! You in a fight of your life with 20 grown arse men all want a piece of you, and that just the police. what do you think your peers will do when you step on their toe?
There is only so much bullsh*t one can take and this circle of madness has to end so we can return to our roots, which is really beautiful and complex social bonds and a romantic mix of exotic cultures fused together to make a White utopia seem like hell. So no joke the social dynamics have changed, no doubt about it, but a man can dream ever the less.
Brother let me tell you of this one time I was in a meeting with fellow black people. The kind you go to discuss the state of the community and how to better it. I was only a kid then. The good brother stood up and started address the behavior of some of the black women and why there is an epidemic of single mother-ism among our communities. You would not believe the stink these women kicked up. The whole organization was destroyed and these women where well dressed too. I was shocked beyond belief that someone in a suite could behave in such a manner and complete disrespect to the ethos of workmanship. How naive I was to even think these women cared about the conditions of my fellow peers and how to come out of this mess. The meeting did not achieve much and thus we went home even more pissed off than when we came. And that’s the problem right their. When meeting are opened up little do they achieve anything worthwhile. I read this great book by Raz, Joseph (1979). The Authority of Law. Oxford University Press. Talks about the social dynamics and the various group of academic disciplines that study human aspects of the world. His most recent work deals less with legal theory and more with political philosophy and practical reasoning. So understanding social interactions and why big arse organisation fail is important, if you want to be sucussful first let alone trying to up lift a whole communty.
The crisis facing black people in the U.K is not only identity but also culture and the way they carry themselves in public. If the person is weak morally others will feed of that weakness and thus destroy the individual’s chances of moving up in the world or further development in a given field. One cannot just be wary of the social and culture differences between us and the west. It’s even their plain to see for all, even when we examine the music industry going back 60 years ago. And to this day black people still dominate the field of music and creativity, originality and sexiness. But the missing link comes when this idea of individualism and the I-I me-me culture of the 1980s have poisoned the minds of the wealthy and blessed black folks in our family. They too could not see that once the white man learned everything from them music wise they would not be needed any longer and thus why we have such things as Mtv. In the past they did not have enough white folks with rhythm but slowly they have leant this and now black folks are going to be looking like dinosaurs in the coming decade unless something happens. To think in another time or place or another universe, that if African American Musicians help their brother on the African continent we would be living in another reality completely different from today’s miserable state. Alas a man can only dream, huh. 
i'm off to my lecture now..see you soon.
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BIG L - takes all sorts to to make the world. She's probably one of those who was raised by white foster parents.
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BIG L wrote: @ Backatya
You are trying to make excuses for behavior 30 years ago would be considered alien in black communities. Could you turn back the clock 30 years and say the same thing? no because in those days black people use to love each other and work together as a team, greet each other in the street..ect. Not today, you would be hard pressed to find this type of community sprint among black folks in the U.K I don’t know the U.S. it’s a well know fact today and not many people would ague with me when I say this, that living in the west has eroded away our culture and identify to the point that even have a crises on our hands and a sudden void to fill. The situation is so bad in London that black folks even catch you looking at them will f**king take your life from you in a big arse gang beating. It doesn’t even have to be looking anymore, you can accidentally step on the next mans shoe and boom! You in a fight of your life with 20 grown arse men all want a piece of you, and that just the police. what do you think your peers will do when you step on their toe?
There is only so much bullsh*t one can take and this circle of madness has to end so we can return to our roots, which is really beautiful and complex social bonds and a romantic mix of exotic cultures fused together to make a White utopia seem like hell. So no joke the social dynamics have changed, no doubt about it, but a man can dream ever the less.
Brother let me tell you of this one time I was in a meeting with fellow black people. The kind you go to discuss the state of the community and how to better it. I was only a kid then. The good brother stood up and started address the behavior of some of the black women and why there is an epidemic of single mother-ism among our communities. You would not believe the stink these women kicked up. The whole organization was destroyed and these women where well dressed too. I was shocked beyond belief that someone in a suite could behave in such a manner and complete disrespect to the ethos of workmanship. How naive I was to even think these women cared about the conditions of my fellow peers and how to come out of this mess. The meeting did not achieve much and thus we went home even more pissed off than when we came. And that’s the problem right their. When meeting are opened up little do they achieve anything worthwhile. I read this great book by Raz, Joseph (1979). The Authority of Law. Oxford University Press. Talks about the social dynamics and the various group of academic disciplines that study human aspects of the world. His most recent work deals less with legal theory and more with political philosophy and practical reasoning. So understanding social interactions and why big arse organisation fail is important, if you want to be sucussful first let alone trying to up lift a whole communty.
The crisis facing black people in the U.K is not only identity but also culture and the way they carry themselves in public. If the person is weak morally others will feed of that weakness and thus destroy the individual’s chances of moving up in the world or further development in a given field. One cannot just be wary of the social and culture differences between us and the west. It’s even their plain to see for all, even when we examine the music industry going back 60 years ago. And to this day black people still dominate the field of music and creativity, originality and sexiness. But the missing link comes when this idea of individualism and the I-I me-me culture of the 1980s have poisoned the minds of the wealthy and blessed black folks in our family. They too could not see that once the white man learned everything from them music wise they would not be needed any longer and thus why we have such things as Mtv. In the past they did not have enough white folks with rhythm but slowly they have leant this and now black folks are going to be looking like dinosaurs in the coming decade unless something happens. To think in another time or place or another universe, that if African American Musicians help their brother on the African continent we would be living in another reality completely different from today’s miserable state. Alas a man can only dream, huh.
i'm off to my lecture now..see you soon.
Man! I don't know what to say to all of that. Seriously, I am lost for words. All of this from some little strap of a girl on the till at your work place???
I am dumfounded Maybe I will come back to this one, when I have finished deciphering all the issues you have wrapped up in the one......urrmmm....post.
But tell me, how do you manage to take one example (like your girl at work) and use it as if it were the epitome of all black women? Or take the actions of a (still) minority of mindless hotheads (every 'community' has them) and attribute their mindset to all black people? Especially when you consider that at no stage in our (Africans) existence (even before the ravages of whiteman or the West) did we ever enjoy 100% spiritual and conscious utopia among our people....there were always hotheads and wotless people among us, good and bad women/men too.
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Posted: Monday April 16th, 2007 12:53 |
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Sounds like a 'big city' problem. I've never had these problems. Last year I spent around two weeks in hospital with majority black nurses, cleaners and so on, and was treated by a Nigerian doctor I think. I was treated exceptionally well. Even had some enquiring about background etc. Just being friendly.
Go into supermarkets, banks etc and am treated well.
I'm asked for directions weekly by mainly black folks and am happy (if I know) to help. So it seems people feel they can approach other people. There's been an relatively large increase in the number of people immigrating to my town (with Somalis being the largest 'non-white' group) and there's still the nodding and saying 'morning' (especially if it's a plesant day).
Man I just really think it's living in London that makes people like that. Medium sized towns are largely free of that stuff. Not saying those attitudes don't exist because they most definantly do (I have experienced it a little), but BIGL seems as though your exaggerating.
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BIG L wrote: this circle of madness has to end so we can return to our roots, which is really beautiful and complex social bonds and a romantic mix of exotic cultures fused together
How do you personally hope to achieve this when you have such a low opinion of, lack of respect for and general dislike of Black women or does your utopia not include women?
Brother let me tell you of this one time I was in a meeting with fellow black people. The kind you go to discuss the state of the community and how to better it. The good brother stood up and started address the behavior of some of the black women and why there is an epidemic of single mother-ism among our communities. You would not believe the stink these women kicked up. perhaps a "stink was kicked up" as the problem of single motherhood/one parent families is almost always blamed on the woman. But guess how these women became single mothers? thats right, some wotless donator of sperm walked out on their child/ren. Perhaps the "good brother" who led this long ago meeting should have addressed THAT.
Big L, you don't like Black women. Stay away from them. End of subject. If you feel the need to spew about your latest dalience with one, do Blacknet a favour, buy a frigging journal!! "Dear Diary, saw a black girl today. she was ugly and horrible but i am all sad coz she was nice to a white guy. And after all i did to hide the disgust i felt towards her blah blah..."
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Posted: Monday April 16th, 2007 21:38 |
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Man I just really think it's living in London that makes people like that. Medium sized towns are largely free of that stuff.
I think there is alot of mileage in that. Up North in the land of permafrost people are generally much more friendly. Ive seen people have epilectic fits in tube stations and people just step over that / and vex about it too. So it will reflect in most social relations between relative strangers.
Big L you need to go Derby/ Northampton/ Sheffield and meet some friendly northern women and get out the big smoke man.
Nice to see the breath still in the body name. I trust everything is good with you. Peace bro. Mansa.
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Man I just really think it's living in London that makes people like that. Medium sized towns are largely free of that stuff.
I think there is alot of mileage in that. Up North in the land of permafrost people are generally much more friendly. Ive seen people have epilectic fits in tube stations and people just step over that / and vex about it too. So it will reflect in most social relations between relative strangers.
Big L you need to go Derby/ Northampton/ Sheffield and meet some friendly northern women and get out the big smoke man.
Nice to see the breath still in the body name. I trust everything is good with you. Peace bro. Mansa.
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Madam Butterfly wrote: "Dear Diary, saw a black girl today. she was ugly and horrible but i am all sad coz she was nice to a white guy. And after all i did to hide the disgust i felt towards her blah blah..."
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