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 Posted: Thursday March 22nd, 2007 23:26

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if your woman switches her phone off and dont answer the house phone ... what thoughts run through your head? what do you think and how does that make you feel?



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 Posted: Thursday March 22nd, 2007 23:32

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?...that she is trying to conserve her free anytime minutes?



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 Posted: Thursday March 22nd, 2007 23:34

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That her mobile battery is dead or she's in the bathroom.

I'd only feel wary if she's  been giving me reasons to be suspicious in the first place. If not, then that's where trust comes in and paranoia runs a marathon for the sake of the relationship.



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 Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007 00:54

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Would make me feel great as it would allow me to test the miniature surveillance equipment I secretly installed.



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 Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007 04:53

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The average black man is insecure...of course he cant handle this. But hey any relationship based on trust should overlook this as a little mishap. The other question is how often the woman switches off her phone?



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 Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007 07:10

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Footprints wrote: The average black man is insecure...:shock: Damn footprints... you sure you wanna take it there???Lol@ Newstyle! blkbrukteet



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 Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007 08:09

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That she's probably gone shopping with her mother and she knows I'm gonna be pissed because they always spend too much money. 



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 Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007 08:13

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I used to switch off my phone when I was upset w/ my bf. I don't  do that anymore, as I feel like we should always communicate..even if it's just arguing. Ignoring him/her is so cruel...



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 Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007 13:14

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I don't think I would notice actually.  What with jungling 5 girlfriends and trying to keep them all happy on a daily basis, I hardly have to time to call home smoking-devil

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 Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007 15:47

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Backatya wrote: I don't think I would notice actually.  What with jungling 5 girlfriends and trying to keep them all happy on a daily basis, I hardly have to time to call home smoking-devil

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Bad breed! lol. Ur too funny.

Unless the relationship is aleady under stress and there is an underlying trust issue, there should be no problem. If the girl is untrustworthy or the guy is paranoid or ultra sensitive then issues can arise. It is possible for a phone battery to die and for you to not hear your house phone, or if your phone is as faulty as mine (Never buy a Motorola V3i), it can switch itself off wthout ur knowledge, u've popped out, left the phone on the table.... whatever, it can be all above board but boils down to trust.

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 Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007 17:41

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Soulstarr wrote: Footprints wrote: The average black man is insecure...:shock: Damn footprints... you sure you wanna take it there???Lol@ Newstyle! blkbrukteet

I think have reached a point where I just got to speak my mind sometimes. The black men I encountered have shown some characteristics of insecurity; it just could the type I attract - dont know:?



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 Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007 19:54

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That's she's cheap and not paid her bills.



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 Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007 21:10

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@cheesy foot

Don't start none of that please, gracias.



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 Posted: Saturday March 24th, 2007 09:49

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interesting responses

though i do know some guys who only think extreme.

 



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 Posted: Saturday March 24th, 2007 11:07

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Prince Hakeem wrote: @cheesy foot

Don't start none of that please, gracias.


None of what???????? Just telling it like it is Prince Hex me.



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 Posted: Saturday March 24th, 2007 13:30

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i used to do that too, to punish my man if i was vex with him, then i grew out of that and into just letting my fone ring out...now I'd just answer it and say i was feeling upset and i dont feel like talking right now

if a girl does that she could be up to anything...may be she has a fancy man....hubbies beware!



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 Posted: Saturday March 24th, 2007 14:13

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i switch my phone off sometimes

just so he knows he cant get me as and when

its not about always being available

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 Posted: Saturday March 24th, 2007 17:21

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LadyDay wrote: i switch my phone off sometimes

just so he knows he cant get me as and when

its not about always being available

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Are you not married? Why on earth would you want to purposely switch off your phone just so your husband cannot get hold of you confused3 is this not game playing and unnecessary, what is the purpose in doing such a thing to let someone you 'love' acknowlege - you aint always available; sounds rather childish to me. Does this behaviour not just create mistrust .:shock: If this behaviour comes about due to arguments, I still find it childish - communicate.



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 Posted: Saturday March 24th, 2007 19:57

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newstyle wrote: Would make me feel great as it would allow me to test the miniature surveillance equipment I secretly installed.

 

thats deep:shock:



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 Posted: Sunday March 25th, 2007 13:48

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Being serious now.  You must have some serious issues if it messes up your head because you can't get your woman on her mobile.  I'll be in rehab by now if I took that sh*t on because I sometimes wonder why my wife has a mobile, since 7 times out of 10 I can't reach her on it anyway!

..............the other three times I seem to dial a wrong number because this guy answers with a deep "yeah what do you want?", only to tell me I got the wrong number.  Man, these mobile companies got to sort their connections out!

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..............the other three times I seem to dial a wrong number because this guy answers with a deep "yeah what do you want?", only to tell me I got the wrong number.  Man, these mobile companies got to sort their connections out!

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 Posted: Tuesday March 27th, 2007 17:10

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All those mind games and Bsh*t, this is why i stay single! Who the hell wants to get back into all this.



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Ofcourse it's logical that she's out somewhere flandering...


 

 



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 Posted: Wednesday March 28th, 2007 14:38

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Any relationship I'm any has to be very communicative and open.  If not, I'm not taking it serious anyhow.  If it becomes a habit, then I would begin to suspect she is hiding something.



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 Posted: Monday April 16th, 2007 08:50

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This African militant who believes marriage is for white people would ring my house to speak to the ex wife. If I answered the phone he'd hang up...and I still had to pay  the bill - they were all tramps...the lot of them!

I have a reputation for not kinning teet with gal pikney, jealousy has never been an issue for me. I only need one woman, that's my woman. saying that one of the things that was really good about my ex was she was always there, was never more than a phone call away. I remember it was about five years in and it was the first time I rang and her mum said she wasn't in...it was quite a culture shock....makes you really check the things you take for granted. Still, with so much time at home you would have thought she'd have mastered a few more traditional Caribbean recipes than she did:)

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