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Posted: Monday March 12th, 2007 17:33 |
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I really would like to know the answer to this question from a man's perspective. I have a lot of male friends and half of them say that they don't like it when women play hard to get but at the same time they would be the same people that would slag off women for giving it up too easily saying that they're 'easy'. Is the way to a man's heart really through his belly or can men cope with women who cannot and do not like to cook? Do men really view women who are bold enough to chat them up as aggresive and 'too upfront'? What is the preferred option for men
So fellas, can you guys please shed some light on this topic.
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Posted: Monday March 12th, 2007 22:51 |
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precious_YSS wrote: I really would like to know the answer to this question from a man's perspective. I have a lot of male friends and half of them say that they don't like it when women play hard to get but at the same time they would be the same people that would slag off women for giving it up too easily saying that they're 'easy'. Is the way to a man's heart really through his belly or can men cope with women who cannot and do not like to cook? Do men really view women who are bold enough to chat them up as aggresive and 'too upfront'? What is the preferred option for men
So fellas, can you guys please shed some light on this topic.
Actaually it is through the ribs...at least that what biology class taught....
I get the expression just teasing you
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Posted: Tuesday March 13th, 2007 00:53 |
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| The fact that they are women make us like them. It has something to do with our penis being connected to our brain.
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Posted: Wednesday March 14th, 2007 04:20 |
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I understand women look at things in men like confidence, money, humor, etc. Honesty men mostly go by looks (face, body, ass,etc.). in fact if you look like beyonce you dont even have to talk to me, just sit there and look pretty and ill be your man.
in all honesty I would rather have a shy girl than an aggressive one cause the shy ones laugh at everything you say and tend to be low mateinence.
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Posted: Tuesday April 10th, 2007 04:43 |
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precious_YSS wrote: I really would like to know the answer to this question from a man's perspective. I have a lot of male friends and half of them say that they don't like it when women play hard to get but at the same time they would be the same people that would slag off women for giving it up too easily saying that they're 'easy'. Is the way to a man's heart really through his belly or can men cope with women who cannot and do not like to cook? Do men really view women who are bold enough to chat them up as aggresive and 'too upfront'? What is the preferred option for men
So fellas, can you guys please shed some light on this topic.
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Posted: Tuesday April 10th, 2007 08:29 |
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Level I: Nice Face , Good Shape, Clear Skin and good hair, dresses fine = Shag material
Level II; As above, but can hold a conversation, same sense of humour and intelligent = Take her out maybe introduce to your associates , be seen on the street with her + Shag
Level III: as above; Holds similar morals as you, shares the same dreams and is into you big time = make love , Intro to associates, seen on the streets with her, Innercircle friends share same abode.
Level IV: As above, entwined in your pysche, share visions of the future, planning of long term commitment Children, property and finances.= As above, Make Love, Intro to associates, inner circle of friends, share same abode, introduce to family ,marriage plans or made.
A rough guide, if you want to know where you stand with him
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Posted: Tuesday April 10th, 2007 19:59 |
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| This is a good thread. So come on guys....confess! no lies now.... this is a question i think every gal wants answered!
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Posted: Tuesday April 10th, 2007 19:59 |
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| This is a good thread. So come on guys....confess! no lies now.... this is a question i think every gal wants answered!
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Posted: Tuesday April 10th, 2007 20:00 |
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| This is a good thread. So come on guys....confess! no lies now.... this is a question i think every gal wants answered!
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Posted: Monday April 16th, 2007 13:23 |
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Dada wrote:
Level I: Nice Face , Good Shape, Clear Skin and good hair, dresses fine = Shag material
Level II; As above, but can hold a conversation, same sense of humour and intelligent = Take her out maybe introduce to your associates , be seen on the street with her + Shag
Level III: as above; Holds similar morals as you, shares the same dreams and is into you big time = make love , Intro to associates, seen on the streets with her, Innercircle friends share same abode.
Level IV: As above, entwined in your pysche, share visions of the future, planning of long term commitment Children, property and finances.= As above, Make Love, Intro to associates, inner circle of friends, share same abode, introduce to family ,marriage plans or made.
A rough guide, if you want to know where you stand with him
I think I agree with you Dada, but could you clarify what you mean in Level I? What is a "nice face, good shape...and good hair". When it comes to a face, I tend to like distinct chiseled features...an example might be a somewhat slender face, prominent cheek bones, with full lips....
Denise Lewis (no comments about her behavior please, the sister is still fine in my estimation)
Yasmin
...though there are many other variations of "chiseled distinct features" not resembling the sisters above.
When it comes to "good hair" to me is as long as it is healthy, whether in locs, an afro, or whatever (natural). When it comes to shape, I'm sorry if I offend any BNV ladies but I like a sister who is in shape...preferably slim. Thickness is definitely nice, but you don't need to be "thick" to have a booty. I know plenty of slim sisters that have booties where they have to take a few full steps through a door or her booty will still be in the other room.
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Posted: Tuesday April 17th, 2007 19:57 |
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they can produce men! for my future army!!! a-la clone army!!! AAAARRRGGGHHH!!!
just kidding for those suckers without a sense of humour..
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Posted: Tuesday April 17th, 2007 20:40 |
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. When a woman has good dress sense (classy, but NOT sleazy)
. When a she has a nice booty
. When she's approachble and doesn't give me the look of death if I come up and say something to her
. When she's polite and treats all people with respect
. When she has confidence (but doesn't walk around like her sh*t don't stink)
. When we have chemistry
. When we can buss joke and have a good time
. When we can have an intelligent conversation
. When I can confide in her
That's about it really
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Posted: Tuesday April 17th, 2007 21:11 |
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| Exeptional...I agree...
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Posted: Tuesday April 17th, 2007 21:50 |
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Looks yes but I'm on shaky knees when it comes to intelligent women. Any sista out there who is African equivalent of Carol Vordaman give me a holla Nothing worse than pretty looks but dense.
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Posted: Tuesday April 17th, 2007 23:12 |
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Incognito wrote: Looks yes but I'm on shaky knees when it comes to intelligent women. Any sista out there who is African equivalent of Carol Vordaman give me a holla Nothing worse than pretty looks but dense.
Sooo Incognito...what was it you saw in your good lady-wife?? She couldn't cook, was a sloppy housewife, a poor conversationalist, had zero principles, zero culture, zero class, was a bad mother, had more in common with her/your wotless friends, you know, those hypocrites and overnite militants you have so much contempt for...in fact she thought and acted exactly like a grey didn't she?
So what exactly was the attraction for you?
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Posted: Tuesday April 17th, 2007 23:36 |
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c&j - I saw African skin, homeliness and although jealousy has never been an issue with me I never had to worry about other men...and believe me she attracted them like you wouldn't believe.
For the stuff you mentioned lets say I saw potential....I mean I gave it more than 12 years...even gave her a marriage license, bought the childrens home for her convenience, even included her in the purchase...(but then she already had legal rights to half anyway so her money wasn't a motive for me), and made my own parents be the grandparents on the side....but in the end it was like being in a relationship with a plank of wood that only knew about money. It was like being a sperm donor with a bank account.
And kindly replace zero with different....or make that different enough
There's a longer story behind most of that negative stuff. Involves some hypocrites (one on line) who couldn't defend certain corner. I noticed one of them dropping off but I wasn't sure if it was the online enemy buying him out or the wife....you see she would ring these people seeking comfort and sanity. So I basically had to throw some corn to find out what and what was going on. It even got me a ban on Ligali of all places.
Still, the wife must have been really sh!tting herself..especially after just giving birth to the second and finding out other women were involved but these people emboldened her and gave her the coourage to put up a fight
It's quite weird...you know in a relationship there are things only you and that person knows yet these enemies would talk like they knew her better than I did and she would talk like she knew them better than me...but then it would seem that way to all of them as they were all defending the same core values...none of which were the same as mine
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Posted: Wednesday April 18th, 2007 00:00 |
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c&j - and please believe me...as fasr as what I call the common mentality posse goes she is the best woman out there....okay needs bringing here and there but probably needs a pu$$y sucker more than a man on a mission like me. Or as one of the enemies put it, trust a girl like her to end up with a man like me...but as I put it to her...if I was like him I would have told her to dash her belly....you know what i'm saying about shared values now.
And believe me again, she's the lucky one, what she's after comes a dime a dozen...she'll be fine..Oh there was one more hypocrite who jumpe on the wagon but then he was always a waggonist..very insecure individual...when we were growing up and a girl would be coming round to visit....he'd asked to boorow your television for the night to impress her...birds of a feather flock together..I was always the odd one out so my wife had to be that special.....just wasn't her
Funny where I work most people assume black men have greys. Talking to the Nigerian elder about it and the first thing she asked was is she one of us to which I said yes and she was so heartbroken. And as for being special, even now I contemplate how you don't get more special than a son born on your birthday but even that pales into a relative insignificance if there are no shared core values behind it i.e these people will be raising your heavenly blessing on bacon
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Posted: Wednesday April 18th, 2007 01:06 |
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c&j - last one then I promise bed.....don't watch the overnight militant thing...a lot of it is for a particular audience...they know who they are but basically I kind of dedicated my youth to the mission. When I was reading my books to help lay foundations, some next man was purchasing cars they couldn't afford to buy or run, driving up and down all corners of England sleeping with single mums...we used to call these punks motherf***ers...young fresh green men with single mums from country. The joke is the hustling I had as an even younger yoot I could have bought all their cars....but pum pum wasn't the mission....but then I was never a ladies man.
Anyways, when these same punks reach a point where they haven't even reached thirty and when looking back on their lives all they can see is a bag of pum pum and pikney - after trying and failing yet again at another stretch at college...(with the help of someone elses five years old coursework)...they then come on line with the computer someone else 'gave' them preaching to everyone about Africa...yet for them marriage is for white people , wedlock children has no relevance...though Christened children do, no mention of academic achievement because the white man is the devil and all employed black people like the EPN are sellouts, no mention of the greys they used to sleep with and no mention that since 19 long time they only date red skin women - and then think because they've been on a protest march they can tell other people who can afford to house their wedlocked children about themself - thats's as overnight as it gets don't you think...and even worse tell people about whinging when they themselves used to get cussed to the teeth about whingeing about the system that houses and feeds their family....but hey, if you believe that...you'll believe anything...call it some light entertainment
btw..as for the wife...I done the opposit of everything I did do to see if she noticed the difference...quite odd..she started to try and do everything she should have done as a wife...b ut the new wife was on the scene by then. Still girl power is the order of the day...she can't be seen to beg....would seek solace amongst the enemies before doing that
I have a cinical side to me, which within context has its uses and no matter how true it maybe it's not necessarily the belief at the forefront of my mind. We are all Africans and will get where we are going one way or another
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Posted: Wednesday April 18th, 2007 10:02 |
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Posted: Wednesday April 18th, 2007 10:31 |
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you know whats hot. i was wacthing wags boutique last night and saw them girls in a soccer gear. now forget all the sterotypical crap about what sexy is. forget them lesbian crap. forget naked women mud wrestling forget tenis players.
women playing soccer is where its at. with them big thighs and fat hips. i forget how much i used to love watching the female american soccer team. damn thats hot. a friend of mine in a florida state university told me i aint seen nothing yet. he goes just to watch the tighs. forget all you lazy ass city women you dont wana get dirty, with your excess make up. gimme my athletic woman anytime. personally i like tom boys anyway. low mainataince.
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Posted: Wednesday April 18th, 2007 14:12 |
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Soul Machine - all those women are lesbians...saying that, a woman with a broken husky voice is very very sexy - the audience shakes its head
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Posted: Thursday April 19th, 2007 23:49 |
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Confidence seems to be a high attraction. Worse on the list are women whose definition of being a woman is based on how they compare themselves against men.
A woman has a standard and a quality that is personal and doesn't change depending on her surroundings. When you hear a woman say 'but you do it too' then you know you're in a competition and she probaly thinks she's a man. My current bird is a real proper lady. A class act....makes you wonder what she's doing with me
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Posted: Friday April 20th, 2007 02:22 |
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Cultured and African aware (not village aware) women and women who consider how clean and tidy their home is as equally if not more important than how they look outa road.
Women who put their children before themselves. Knew this babymother whose children would come outa road with unscreamed skin and half brushed teeth yet when you look at her she hadn't a single hair out of place. Wotliss babymother.
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Posted: Friday April 20th, 2007 11:11 |
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Shemsi en Tehuti
Obviously my wife is my benchmark.
Who is one or two bars above the two posted. 
But then again beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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Posted: Friday April 20th, 2007 11:19 |
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| IS IT ME OR IS THE QUESTION KINDA SILLY?
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