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 Posted: Friday September 8th, 2006 15:29

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With some female from an internet forum, leaving all manner of evidence of your infidelity in the threads?



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 Posted: Friday September 8th, 2006 16:04

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Err.....do you care to elaborate bro?

Have you been caught with your pants down?



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 Posted: Friday September 8th, 2006 16:06

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stick-upKid wrote: Err.....do you care to elaborate bro?

Have you been caught with your pants down?



Not at all, just a simple question up for discussion.

I dont cheat, no need to. Its much easier to tell the truth.




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 Posted: Friday September 8th, 2006 17:51

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Cheating as in playing the field then coming home to the wife, smiling in her face and calling her all the pet names under the sun....my conscience wouldn't let me.....ironically it's the same conscience that would decide she's no longer the wife.



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 Posted: Friday September 8th, 2006 19:54

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, Bacoo wrote: With some female from an internet forum, leaving all manner of evidence of your infidelity in the threads?



My wife, no

A woman I was planning on marrying (meaning I asked her to marry me) no.

Anything outside fo that I never considered cheating anyway.  I dated.  And I dated as many woman as the same time as  could...that was the whole point.  People don't date anymore.  They simply hop from man to man, woman to woman, relationship to relationship...and call that dating.

Women do it............end up getting used, trampled on, and then all of a sudden want to find god.

Come to think of it I might.  I'm not leaving my daguther...I'm not having my child raised by one parent.  i did that...its sucks.  If my wife stopped doing the things she needed to do as a woman and my wife....I think i just might give penis to another woman....

I've killed men before.

Doubtful cheating is higher than that............so I don't give it much thought.  Currently I have a damn good woman, I can't see trading her in for another model.

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 Posted: Friday September 8th, 2006 20:08

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LOL and we all know Mrs Parris glances at your posts every now and again so....;)



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 Posted: Friday September 8th, 2006 20:52

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She wouldnt dare say a thing because hes killed men before.



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LOL and we all know Mrs Parris glances at your posts every now and again so....;)



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 Posted: Saturday September 9th, 2006 00:27

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Parris wrote: , Bacoo wrote: With some female from an internet forum, leaving all manner of evidence of your infidelity in the threads?



My wife, no

A woman I was planning on marrying (meaning I asked her to marry me) no.

Anything outside fo that I never considered cheating anyway.  I dated.  And I dated as many woman as the same time as  could...that was the whole point.  People don't date anymore.  They simply hop from man to man, woman to woman, relationship to relationship...and call that dating.

Women do it............end up getting used, trampled on, and then all of a sudden want to find god.

Come to think of it I might.  I'm not leaving my daguther...I'm not having my child raised by one parent.  i did that...its sucks.  If my wife stopped doing the things she needed to do as a woman and my wife....I think i just might give penis to another woman....

I've killed men before.

Doubtful cheating is higher than that............so I don't give it much thought.  Currently I have a damn good woman, I can't see trading her in for another model.

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 Posted: Saturday September 9th, 2006 08:51

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`I hear you Parris - it's why many don't get married, a partner or a babymother/father for many means they are still free to play the field. Biut I think that is one of them secret codes everyone lives by...or I guess public knowledge if you're in that game.

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 Posted: Saturday September 9th, 2006 09:39

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No, not an Internet forum or anywhere else.  I respect her too much to do that to her.  Also we are rearing 3 boys and I do not want to corrupt their future, by giving them the ok by my actions to feel it's cool to cheat on a woman.   

And I don't want the burden of sending another generation of irresponsible African American men out to prey on and destroy the hopes and dreams of African American Women. 

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 Posted: Saturday September 9th, 2006 10:09

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Bacoo wrote: With some female from an internet forum, leaving all manner of evidence of your infidelity in the threads?


Is this a serious question from which you are hoping for a meaningful debate? 

Come on now think about it,  Everybody (who deems to answer that is) says NO OF COURSE NOT!.........................so where do you take the debate from there?  confused3

Sorry it just seems a pointless question to me........unless you were coming from the perspective of someone who does cheat on his wife and you wanted to present a case for 'justification'.  Now that would a real debate. 

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 Posted: Thursday September 14th, 2006 17:12

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stick-upKid wrote: Err.....do you care to elaborate bro?

Have you been caught with your pants down?



Not at all, just a simple question up for discussion.

I dont cheat, no need to. Its much easier to tell the truth.




the writing in blue made me laugh maybe i have been alive for too many years but i just think thats nonsense

man is man woman is woman and in the grand scheme of things people still get on with it regardless of who did what with who



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 Posted: Friday September 15th, 2006 10:53

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@Parris, think Backatya is drawing your attentions to the dangers of a closed question. Isn't the issue in terms of opening up a debate more an issue of what are the conditions or factors which would make you decide to cheat on your wife.

The essential issue in the context of cheating is the dishonesty element, I supposeconfused3

 

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 Posted: Friday September 15th, 2006 11:06

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If you have to cheat on your wife...........she's not your wife. Obviously the very meaning of the word means different things to different people.....both men and women. I'm sure in many many marriages even the word cheating has some convoluted interpretation which makes it 'acceptable' - know your class...but if you get it wrong, you might have to throw a divorce their way to find out what they are really about:)

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 Posted: Monday September 18th, 2006 23:10

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No, I wouldn't.  Some people say that you never know what you will do in the future, but I know myself.  I have too much honor for something like that. 



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Yes I would. Does that change the direction of the debate now?



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 Posted: Tuesday September 19th, 2006 11:01

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You got to feel it for a brotha, cheating for many is the lesser evil to loosing their children....indeed many women take it for granted their men are cheating  but they have brush-under-the-carpet mentalities and for the most part tell theselves some kind of fantasy so are ok as long as they don't find out. For the woman, it's a lesser evil than being a single mother.

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Miyu wrote: Yes I would. Does that change the direction of the debate now?

 

No debate, just a simple question.





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Hubby once new a man who cheated on his wife with a colleague at work but did not consider it to be cheating. He made a point to say that he was able to do things with the other woman that he couldn't do with his wife but there was no way at all that he would leave his missus:shock:.



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Maat wrote: Hubby once new a man who cheated on his wife with a colleague at work but did not consider it to be cheating. He made a point to say that he was able to do things with the other woman that he couldn't do with his wife but there was no way at all that he would leave his missus:shock:.

 

I think a lot of men do this marry the innocent virginal type of woman then have affairs with the freaky type of woman. Men who are like this in my opinion tend to be quite sexist wouldnt want to marry a "freak" but doesnt mind f**king with one. The freak might not be loose but his man hood cant handle a sexually experimentive woman so he goes for the woman he feels would never cheat on him. My motto is lady on the streets, freak in the sheets. When I get married my husband will be too tired out to even think about having sex with someone else. And I want to get married only once so damn straight he has to be freaky none of this standard missionary, wham bam thank you mam, nah mate;)





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@ blackbutterfly182: :shock: I feel sorry for him already LOL

@FredB: This is a good point actually what are the conditions or factors which would make you decide to cheat on your wife? Any takers??



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If the food was good and the sex was good no clp)

If the food was lousy but the sex was good maybeconfused3

If the food was good but the sex was lousy most definateybanana.gif

does that answer your question lol



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