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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 03:07 |
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| Hey, new the fourms, seen you guys have some good advice so i want to give a post to see what your opinions are. Me and my girl have been dating for around 11 months now fine. We've been talking for like over a year. Everything has been great, i mean at 1st we use to be sexual and stuff ( not sex, but other stuff ) , but latley nothing. Like months, we dont do anything anymore, but its not me. She gets mad that we "dont do anything", but she feels weird when i try to touch her and doesn't want me too. Im pretty sure she loves me, i mean she always wants to be with me and stuff, but does she love me and yet shes not attracted to me or something. Im lost. Any advice would be apprecaiated , thanks.(sry for spelling errors)
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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 07:03 |
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 i'd dump her if i was you mate and find someone who is more willing to give it up!Last edited on Friday May 21st, 2004 07:05 by Saida.M
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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 10:04 |
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vexixx wrote: Hey, new the fourms, seen you guys have some good advice so i want to give a post to see what your opinions are. Me and my girl have been dating for around 11 months now fine. We've been talking for like over a year. Everything has been great, i mean at 1st we use to be sexual and stuff ( not sex, but other stuff ) , but latley nothing. Like months, we dont do anything anymore, but its not me. She gets mad that we "dont do anything", but she feels weird when i try to touch her and doesn't want me too. Im pretty sure she loves me, i mean she always wants to be with me and stuff, but does she love me and yet shes not attracted to me or something. Im lost. Any advice would be apprecaiated , thanks.(sry for spelling errors)
@ Vexixx - dont listen to Athaba!
how old are you and your girlfriend?
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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 11:44 |
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well, basically, fernando says that you need to talk to her, otherwise you wont know whats going on.
if you dont talk to her, then it will fester and grow until she could possibly start thinking, 'i dont wanna be with him'.
so nip it in the bud, and talk to her. the worst that could happen is that she'll tell you the truth and you deal with it and move on!
in the same way that quincy and natasha could move on in the 2004, summer smash Who Is My Brother's Keeper, coming soon!
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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 11:46 |
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| @ Fernando - you are absolutely shameless!!
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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 12:37 |
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i dont feel no way!
the thing is, it'll slowly get into people's heads so when they see it, they'll think, "oh yeah!"
there is a plan, like dame dash, there IS a plan i can link anything! lol
in the same way that Anthony had a plan, even though it wasnt very clear in the 2004 summer smash, Who Is My Brother's Keeper, coming soon!
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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 15:24 |
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@ Fenando - by the time the book comes out, it would already have been "read" -- and I wont need to buy it.
there is something to be said for intrigue. LOL
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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 15:44 |
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by the time the book comes out, one of two things will probably happen:
1) you would've probably read so many of these things that none of it will make sense and you wont remember it by the time the book ends up in your hands.
OR
2) when the books comes, you wont go back into EVERY forum i'm put my "marketing" in and read what i say JUST so you wont have to read the book.
as far as i remember my sista, your not that sad! besides i'm not giving you anything extra, besides giving you info that is in the back cover blurb and, okay, i agree, maybe a little extra. but nothing too important that you'll understand what the book is about!
so  !
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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 16:01 |
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ok Fernando - keep on boring us with your "Forum Marketing" .... and we'll see who's going to be sticking their tongue out at whom!
You are working over-time, my brother, that's all Im gonna tell you.
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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 16:58 |
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| Were both 17 , both almost 18. We did talk thats why i know she feels weird and stuff when i touch her and ect. But i mean shes still all over me, im so lost. I dont know what to do.
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Posted: Friday May 21st, 2004 23:36 |
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vexixx wrote: Were both 17 , both almost 18. We did talk thats why i know she feels weird and stuff when i touch her and ect. But i mean shes still all over me, im so lost. I dont know what to do.
here's my advise:
why is it so difficult to figure out what to do? you have two choices, you leave or u stay. If u love the sex, leave. If you love her, stay and ask her whats wrong...why she feels weird. Depending on what her answer is, you will know what to do.
oh btw - love does NOT = sex.
...and why are u lost?
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Posted: Saturday May 22nd, 2004 02:08 |
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I know love doesn't = sex. We never accualy had sex. I love her yes, i want to stay with her, but my question is, I dont know what to do. I can't help her with her frustration and getting mad if shes goign to feel weird if a touch her and stuff so we don't ever do anything cept kiss and shes gonna continue being attracted to other guys if we don't do anything. Im just confused, like how can she love me so much and feel weird when i touch her, and be attracted to other guys.
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Posted: Tuesday May 25th, 2004 15:06 |
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Perhaps she is a virgin and is scared to lose her virginity now that you guys are more serious. When you touch each other in certain places, certain feelings are aroused that make you want to take it further, it's a natural thing. There's so much hype and expectations about sex that when it comes to the crunch all kinds of uncomfortable feelings surface. If you are a virgin, you may want to share with her that there are things that you too may be scared of. If you are not a virgin, maybe you can share what fears you may have had.
If she seems hot and cold perhaps she doesn't know herself what she wants. Another thing society has you believe is that females have all the answers. That's a myth we are all still learning. Don't make anyone show you different no matter how much better than you they try to behave.
Or like Fernando suggests. Ask her outright What's Uuuuuuuuup?? Tell her that whether her response is good or bad that you just need to know. Hopefully she will open up to you.
I hope I've helped somehow. If not ask more questions because if you don't ask you won't know
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Posted: Tuesday June 22nd, 2004 12:33 |
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truth hurts, right? agreed,good.
now brace ya self and collect some truth...
u wasnt good @sex so she pissed off. either you wasnt giving her d bangs of her life or you just is naive. so what happens? she recoiled and when a girl recoils, tis dangerous. its happened to someone i know b4. now take some advice.
take her on a romantic date. some evening out, if you was d classy typ, take her to some classy joint, end up d day somewhere safe and quiet, raise d sex topic. tell her how badly you miss d sex, tune her up on the topic making sure you get her talking on d issue and wait to hear d painful truth. she definitely will tell ya how u wasnt doing it good. how u liked to do only kissing, or how you dont bring her up to ectasy(hey, talking about ecstacy...i'd like that as a topic. forum pls watchout) and all that
bro, truth sure hurts, b'live me. if you doubt it, just do like i tol ya!
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Posted: Friday June 25th, 2004 00:52 |
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| DESNUMBERI YOU GOT NAAAAAAA BRAINS
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Posted: Monday June 28th, 2004 16:57 |
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brainman, johnncrow 234, what xactly u mean tryin t' diss me like that? u were supposed to make a positive contribution to the solution of this bro's prob. instead you're runing down on me. u write nutthin, jes make some lousy comment. is that sense..eh
what xactly u mean man!!!! what i don 2u now,man. ok,u know wha?
kiss som ass,(maya, lend me that ass for dis mu-fu) man! and if that no do ya, go chew raw pepper, man!
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Posted: Monday June 28th, 2004 19:05 |
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hey desnumberi
you put my avatar into your text! I just realized, it was funny though! 
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 14:49 |
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bros maya, i jes borrowed da ass for dis ass hole N****r.
may need it sometime again for anyother N****r who aint got brains...thanks all same
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 15:34 |
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u r welcome , at any time 
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 19:15 |
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Hey bro MAYA, am gon need tha ass soon 4sure. ya see this JONHNCROW234, lately getting to be my aftrunner, (ya know like rabbi had john da baptist...dats how deznumberi got jonhncrow234...what a name though...as his come-aft) sort of. he right behind me in all da pages i been to... but did anyone else notice that. cos he gonna be coming up soon. doubt that...check all da pages i been to...Aint done this N****r nuthin....
but lest i digress from da topic, vexxix aint got back to us...bet he take ma advice for sure.
hey JONHNCROW234, hear that? he take ma advice 4 sure ya see that...cos i know u be stalking me...looking ma asss N****r...ya wan smell some ass...?
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 19:25 |
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anybodi seen JONHNCROW234...aroun...
tell em to meet me in da politics page. lets talk some sense about da ills of black dictatorship in afrika
JONHNCROW234 rite wit ya bro!
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 19:55 |
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If you really love this girl and you want to be with her, but she acts weird when you try to get intimately close with her, then i suggest you just give her a bit of time. Maybe she'll "warm" to you eventually. However, if she carries on acting weird, and you've both spoken about the situation but still no improvementt, then bwoy its time to move on...and maybe realise that it wasn't love.
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Posted: Tuesday June 29th, 2004 20:53 |
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| Or maybe her past experiences have made her cautious. Communication is the key. Ensure that your relationship is built on a foundation of openness and honesty. If your meant to be together you'll figure things out. Provide support where needed, passion when called for and patience and understanding at all other times. True love takes your breath away and fills your belly with passion. You are both starting out on this road of discovery and true passion is well worth waiting for.
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Posted: Wednesday June 30th, 2004 08:05 |
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@desnumberi
Yeah I noticed that, he did the same to me and maybe still does!!!! very annoying though!
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Posted: Thursday July 1st, 2004 18:00 |
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me thinks desnumberi is right. ma bro agrees too. first time we agree to something without some heated arguement
i is happi
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Posted: Saturday July 3rd, 2004 20:35 |
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dnt listen 2 desnumber hes a prick wid no brain u both need 2 sit down and discussions ur fears and insecurity and try 2 find sum way dat u can both overcome and become closer 2gether.
if u both have never had "Sex" wid each other then theres a possibility that shes a virgin and scared 2 lose it
be open 2 her communications is the key and try not 2 force her 2 open up 2 u if she dnt want 2 she dnt want 2.
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