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Posted: Tuesday May 8th, 2007 09:17 |
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Many thanks for the replies. I have such an over-active imagination and always assume the worst.
Last edited on Tuesday May 8th, 2007 14:43 by yogi
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Posted: Tuesday May 8th, 2007 12:44 |
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Posted: Tuesday May 8th, 2007 12:49 |
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.lol.
Poor black women.
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Posted: Tuesday May 8th, 2007 13:21 |
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yogi wrote: My beau and I were watching tele and the whole light vs dark debate came about. Anyway we met on a dating website and he mentioned yesterday that the pic I put on the website I look much lighter. Which is true becuase I have yellow undertones and appear very light in pics espacially if the flash is on. He also looked high yella in his pic on the website too comapred to what he looks like in real life, I have always wondered why he he used that particualr pic in the first place but it is his choice.
I had loads of other pics on the website too but he was reffreing to one in particualr. Now I am begigning to wonder if my skin tone of this particualr pic on the webite had anything to do with why he chose to approach me in the first place.
Do you think I am over-reacting. he is a great guy and does treat me like a princess. He has even been hinting about an engagement anythime soon but this latest revalation has really made me rethink the whole relationship.
He also admitted he is not attracted to dark-dark-skinned women as he described it. I guess someoene like Alec Wek.
I am dark brown but should his comemnt about my pic been lighter be a cause for concern?
I am deathly apprehensive about dating any man with hangups on skin tone. Becasue i do not want this insecurity to be passed to my kids if we do get that far.
We black women have to put up with so much ish !! It is so unfair.
This post is an example of the old saying: when monki look for trobu im go find trobu.
Please get on with your life and stop fretting about something that is not worth fretting about. The man is dating you, isnt he?????
Jeeeez.
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Posted: Tuesday May 8th, 2007 13:24 |
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Or you can feed him honey and rub his belly five times... We forget about skin colour after that.
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Posted: Tuesday May 8th, 2007 13:31 |
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Er.....what exactly is the problem here? You've lost me.....
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