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Posted: Monday July 31st, 2006 22:34 |
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basically i have been told that someone is dying of cancer, he is somewhat of a family friend. for reasons i wont discuss here i have never loked the person.
my family are insisting i let bygones be bygones and go see him in his last days.
not sure what to do. i am tempted to go see him for ten mins, but not sure
i may go see him..he is on a ward in a hospital where people are in their last days
what do you think
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Posted: Monday July 31st, 2006 22:42 |
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| Go and see him....right or wrong sometimes one needs to do things for the good of the family and not the individual...
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Posted: Tuesday August 1st, 2006 02:09 |
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LadyDay wrote: basically i have been told that someone is dying of cancer, he is somewhat of a family friend. for reasons i wont discuss here i have never loked the person.
my family are insisting i let bygones be bygones and go see him in his last days.
not sure what to do. i am tempted to go see him for ten mins, but not sure
i may go see him..he is on a ward in a hospital where people are in their last days
what do you think
Fake it!!
After all you never have to see him again,he's dying.
Unless of course he is someone who has molested you or a member of your family then you are well within your rights to to say f**k off and I hope you die an agonizing death........other than that reason.....see him.
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Posted: Tuesday August 1st, 2006 21:39 |
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im in two minds now
i think i will go and see him but
i guess i have nothing to lose
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Posted: Tuesday August 1st, 2006 21:56 |
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| I think you should see him. Let bygones be bygones.
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Posted: Tuesday August 1st, 2006 22:34 |
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| You're not obligated to do anything.
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Posted: Saturday August 5th, 2006 14:32 |
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i went to see him yesterday and im glad i did.
he is soooooo poorly
turns out he has prostate cancer which wasnt caught in time as it had already spread. the cancer is killing him. he still remembered me etc , but his sight is gone. he looks completely different to what he looked like before
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Posted: Saturday August 5th, 2006 15:01 |
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Glad to hear that you made the right decision for you, LD.
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Posted: Wednesday August 9th, 2006 16:28 |
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he passed away. either today or yesterday
so it seems going was the right thing so that i have not got that what if i went thoughts
gosh 2 deaths in 2 wks what next
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