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Posted: Thursday April 27th, 2006 23:20 |
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| did the hospital say what time he "disappeared"? And did they say if he had been discharged yet?
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Posted: Thursday April 27th, 2006 23:23 |
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| He disappeared around 12:15pm , shortly after he text me. He told me that whether they say he can leave or not he would get out of there anyway because he was sick of it in there and wanted to see me desperately. The hospital said he wasn't dismissed and they told him he could leave the next day, but he disappeared.
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Posted: Thursday April 27th, 2006 23:25 |
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| I can imagine how worried you are. I honestly wouldn't even know what to say really. Are his family out looking for him now?
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Posted: Thursday April 27th, 2006 23:28 |
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| Yea everyone's worried bout him and looking for him. I'm insane with worry, I feel like I'm goin crazy
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Posted: Friday April 28th, 2006 14:43 |
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Ladi_Swifty wrote: Yea everyone's worried bout him and looking for him. I'm insane with worry, I feel like I'm goin crazy
It would have been better if you were out there looking for him rather than going insane.
That doesn't help you neither does it help him. Don't go crazy, go crazy searching or man hunting. Anyway, you didn't visit, he may have felt being let down by someone he love so much, his condition was so serious and you didn't visit him, I would have done the same
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Posted: Friday April 28th, 2006 14:45 |
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maybe hes lost his mind...
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Posted: Friday April 28th, 2006 16:30 |
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Hurricane wrote: Ladi_Swifty wrote: Yea everyone's worried bout him and looking for him. I'm insane with worry, I feel like I'm goin crazy
It would have been better if you were out there looking for him rather than going insane.
That doesn't help you neither does it help him. Don't go crazy, go crazy searching or man hunting. Anyway, you didn't visit, he may have felt being let down by someone he love so much, his condition was so serious and you didn't visit him, I would have done the same
You're way out of line and you clearly don't read. The girl is only seventeen. Her mother said she wasn't allowed to go and visit him IN BIRMINGHAM. How dare you suggest that this is somehow her fault? Why compound her misery with spitefull accusations? You don't think she feels bad enough that she can't see him? This is the advice section. if you don't have anything advisory to say, don't say a damn thing.
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Posted: Friday April 28th, 2006 16:57 |
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Soulstarr wrote: Hurricane wrote: Ladi_Swifty wrote: Yea everyone's worried bout him and looking for him. I'm insane with worry, I feel like I'm goin crazy
It would have been better if you were out there looking for him rather than going insane.
That doesn't help you neither does it help him. Don't go crazy, go crazy searching or man hunting. Anyway, you didn't visit, he may have felt being let down by someone he love so much, his condition was so serious and you didn't visit him, I would have done the same
You're way out of line and you clearly don't read. The girl is only seventeen. Her mother said she wasn't allowed to go and visit him IN BIRMINGHAM. How dare you suggest that this is somehow her fault? Why compound her misery with spitefull accusations? You don't think she feels bad enough that she can't see him? This is the advice section. if you don't have anything advisory to say, don't say a damn thing.
Thank you. Some people on here would say anything to cause drama.
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Posted: Friday April 28th, 2006 16:59 |
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Hurricane wrote: Ladi_Swifty wrote: Yea everyone's worried bout him and looking for him. I'm insane with worry, I feel like I'm goin crazy
It would have been better if you were out there looking for him rather than going insane.
That doesn't help you neither does it help him. Don't go crazy, go crazy searching or man hunting. Anyway, you didn't visit, he may have felt being let down by someone he love so much, his condition was so serious and you didn't visit him, I would have done the same
HE WAS NOT FEELING LET DOWN BECAUSE HE UNDERSTOOD THE SITUATION. I WASN'T ALLOWED TO GO ANYWHERE I HAD NO MONEY, WHAT WAS I SUPPOSED TO DO??? WE SPOKE EVERY SINGLE DAY ALLLLL DAY AN HE WAS CONSTANTLY TALKIN ABOUT HOW MUCH HE LOVED ME. You know what...I ain't even saying any more to you cause you clearly don't understand the situation
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Posted: Friday April 28th, 2006 17:01 |
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Prince Hakeem wrote: Soulstarr wrote: Hurricane wrote: Ladi_Swifty wrote: Yea everyone's worried bout him and looking for him. I'm insane with worry, I feel like I'm goin crazy
It would have been better if you were out there looking for him rather than going insane.
That doesn't help you neither does it help him. Don't go crazy, go crazy searching or man hunting. Anyway, you didn't visit, he may have felt being let down by someone he love so much, his condition was so serious and you didn't visit him, I would have done the same
You're way out of line and you clearly don't read. The girl is only seventeen. Her mother said she wasn't allowed to go and visit him IN BIRMINGHAM. How dare you suggest that this is somehow her fault? Why compound her misery with spitefull accusations? You don't think she feels bad enough that she can't see him? This is the advice section. if you don't have anything advisory to say, don't say a damn thing.
Thank you. Some people on here would say anything to cause drama.
Thanks guys, I'm gonna call around again today to see if anyone's heard anything. Thanks for your support
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Posted: Friday April 28th, 2006 20:29 |
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| Hi Ladi, i am so sorry by these latest turn of events. Has there been any news yet? Have local hostels, B & B's etc been contacted? If he was ill in the street, someone may have taken him in, not realizing how serious his condition is. I am sure if it was something terrible he would have turned up in a local hospital by now. If he was on his way back to London, all hospitals between birmingham and London should be checked. If he has no family here they may not have known who to contact.
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Posted: Friday April 28th, 2006 23:12 |
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Madam Butterfly wrote: Hi Ladi, i am so sorry by these latest turn of events. Has there been any news yet? Have local hostels, B & B's etc been contacted? If he was ill in the street, someone may have taken him in, not realizing how serious his condition is. I am sure if it was something terrible he would have turned up in a local hospital by now. If he was on his way back to London, all hospitals between birmingham and London should be checked. If he has no family here they may not have known who to contact.
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Thanks madam butterfly, well...we still haven't heard anything, so I suggested that we contact the police to trace the whereabouts of his mobile phone cause its switched on, an also 2 launch a missin persons enquiry as well, his mum just moved down to London from Birmingham like, a couple of weeks ago, so I'm not sure if they may have the old address or anything, if anything like that has happened to him. If not he has contacts in his phone like his family over here and people closest to him so I'd really like 2 think that one of us would have been contacted, but none of us have so I don't know what to think. I'm really really scared, we were supposed to be seeing each other tomorrow, we were both really looking forward to it, and we both couldn't stop talkin about how happy we were bout seeing each other on the weekend (this was when he found out when he was going to be dismissed). But now... aww damn I'm just..I don't even know
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Posted: Friday April 28th, 2006 23:15 |
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| Lady Swifty: Without wishing to sound harsh...but your boyfriend is not Missing..he clearly does not want to be found... Therefore I think you might find the police less than concerned about rushing out to find him, or to put a trace on his mobile...just a thought!!
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Posted: Friday April 28th, 2006 23:18 |
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Kunjufu wrote: Lady Swifty: Without wishing to sound harsh...but your boyfriend is not Missing..he clearly does not want to be found... Therefore I think you might find the police less than concerned about rushing out to find him, or to put a trace on his mobile...just a thought!!
But that's the thing, he's a thoughtful person an it drives him mad when he can't reply to people when they contact him, and he always feels bad whenever he does that. I'm afraid that something's happened to him because of the condition he was in, even though he was a lot better there could have still been somethin wrong because the hospital said they needed him there one more day. I just wanna know that he's ok
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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 00:03 |
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Soulstarr wrote: Hurricane wrote: Ladi_Swifty wrote: Yea everyone's worried bout him and looking for him. I'm insane with worry, I feel like I'm goin crazy
It would have been better if you were out there looking for him rather than going insane.
That doesn't help you neither does it help him. Don't go crazy, go crazy searching or man hunting. Anyway, you didn't visit, he may have felt being let down by someone he love so much, his condition was so serious and you didn't visit him, I would have done the same
You're way out of line and you clearly don't read. The girl is only seventeen. Her mother said she wasn't allowed to go and visit him IN BIRMINGHAM. How dare you suggest that this is somehow her fault? Why compound her misery with spitefull accusations? You don't think she feels bad enough that she can't see him? This is the advice section. if you don't have anything advisory to say, don't say a damn thing.
Sometimes you just have to tell the truth even if it would hurt. Ok I admit that I forgot that she is seventeen, Nevertheless I still think she ought to have gone out of her way to visit him. We 're talking about life and death situation here.
p.s. Kunfuju said the police might be less concerned about him, yes he was right to say that. Ladi_S may even be more worried reading that, but it is true.
Anyway, I hope where ever he is, He is fine. Ladi_S........I am not condemning you, I just gave you some reasons why he may not have contacted you, he may have gotten in touch with his family members and they have decided he needs some rest.
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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 00:07 |
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i don't see the profit in aking someone who already feels bad feel worse but ok. and i don't think he is upset with Ladi because they were in regular contact and arranging to meet before he went missing.
some people need to learn some things are best kept to yourself unsaid
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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 00:34 |
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I think it would be better if you shut it, I haven't tried to add to her pain but clarify what I said earlier.
Beside those who responded earlier directed their post directly to me, why you being a coward by saying some people blah blah, it would be better if you direct your comments to a specifc person. Beside you dont need to re- iterate what has been said before.
I think you really need a boyfriend, at least you would not be up at this time chatting bullsh*t.
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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 00:38 |
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| At this point I'm giving an advisory...we are not going to have a slanging match on THIS thread thank you...and I'm not tolerating threatening language..so be warned I will remove people and not posts from here on in...
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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 00:39 |
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You know what, i am not even taking this thread there. That is ot what it is about. But i will say this.
Hurricane, if you have nothing constructive or comforting to add, then maybe you should SHUT IT. Fr the record i was also directing my comment at Kunjufu.
PS what has the time i am up got to do with you? In future address me in a PM because i will not be resposible for denigrating this thread.
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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 00:55 |
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Kunjufu wrote: At this point I'm giving an advisory...we are not going to have a slanging match on THIS thread thank you...and I'm not tolerating threatening language..so be warned I will remove people and not posts from here on in...
Is that a threat or what.??........action speaks louder than words. I reserve the right to defend what I write. Don't care if I am removed, it is not the end of the world. get real bruv
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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 00:57 |
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Is that a threat or what.??........action speaks louder than words. I reserve the right to defend what I write. Don't care if I am removed, it is not the end of the world. get real bruv
Peace Out
I don't threaten...I do...therefore I'm telling you now NOT on this thread..if you do I will remove you without further warnings period!!!!!
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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 01:04 |
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Kunjufu wrote: Hurricane wrote:
Is that a threat or what.??........action speaks louder than words. I reserve the right to defend what I write. Don't care if I am removed, it is not the end of the world. get real bruv
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I don't threaten...I do...therefore I'm telling you now NOT on this thread..if you do I will remove you without further warnings period!!!!!
Point taken, I know you are the chairman of this place.
up until now, I have manage to avoid you, and my beef wasn't with you.......so I think I would leave this to rest. However, it is worth saying, If I get banned, I would hack this site....... but I won't do that until I get blocked
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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 01:08 |
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Point taken, I know you are the chairman of this place.
up until now, I have manage to avoid you, and my beef wasn't with you.......so I think I would leave this to rest. However, it is worth saying, If I get banned, I would hack this site....... but I won't do that until I get blocked
Now you're threatening me..please don't..if you break the guidelines then like anyone else you will banned period...no exceptions
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Posted: Saturday April 29th, 2006 11:18 |
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Hurricane wrote:
Point taken, I know you are the chairman of this place.
up until now, I have manage to avoid you, and my beef wasn't with you.......so I think I would leave this to rest. However, it is worth saying, If I get banned, I would hack this site....... but I won't do that until I get blocked
sorry to subvert again But may I as why you would do this? what would be gained from "hacking the site"?
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luvb take Kunjufus words and dwell on them... maybe he dont wanna be found....hes a grown man (I think) and im sure he knows perfectly well what hes doing...no doubt whereever hes at im sure people would have returned him to hospital if they thought he was really in danger...just chill out..im sure he well tell you wassup when hes returns from his travels..
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