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 Posted: Tuesday July 19th, 2005 13:08

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At the moment im living by myself but have been approached by one of good friends to move in together.  I do want to because we get on well, but one of my other friends told me the reason we get on so well is because we have our own space.  Now im not sure if i should.  Help im very indecisive .........what can i say im a gemini.



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 Posted: Tuesday July 19th, 2005 13:11

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NEVER

Not EVER....

some will tell you it's ok and cool and blah blah blah but you must ignore them for they speak with the forked tongue.  Do not do it.



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 Posted: Tuesday July 19th, 2005 13:12

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You have to look at the pro's and cons....you may need help with the bills and rent/mortgage...but how would you feel if your man came round and she was walking around in her slinky shyt?? How long have you known her?? You sure she aint gonna piss you off?



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 Posted: Tuesday July 19th, 2005 13:42

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I would say NO!

My best friends of 10 years lived with me...

It was a living hell...

I wouldn't advise you doing it...

 



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 Posted: Tuesday July 19th, 2005 23:07

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Bad idea in my opinion.

What you think you know about a person is always altered once you've lived with them.



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 Posted: Tuesday July 19th, 2005 23:43

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Guys friends tend to live happily together, and female friends end up hating each other. Unless you're very accomodating, flexible and can take a lot of stress, don't do it.

Then again if your friend is super docile, ask yourself whether she can take your personality/ lifestyle for long.



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 Posted: Wednesday July 20th, 2005 11:00

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It will easily make it into the top 10 worst mistakes you have ever done nuff said.



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 Posted: Wednesday July 20th, 2005 15:49

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Thank you for the advice everyone. Much appreciated niceone.gif

Just came back from looking at some places and its not looking to hopeful anyway.  Where she wants to move to is to far away for me. She says she'll pick me up when i want but im thinkin' yea rite! (she drives i dont)

The problem now is just how do i tell her i dont want to move in with her because i feel as if im letting her down.



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 Posted: Wednesday July 20th, 2005 16:11

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Is it in Luton or Bedford?



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 Posted: Friday July 22nd, 2005 01:39

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Don't be afraid to let your friend down, just do it tactfully. Look out for your own interests first.

Start of with something like "i would have loved living with you but for now i will like to live in ...." and end with "Thank you for trying to help me etc etc"



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