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Posted: Wednesday June 29th, 2005 21:53 |
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Posted: Thursday June 30th, 2005 06:46 |
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Posted: Friday July 1st, 2005 13:09 |
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Hey BlackMatta,
How you doing? You made me LMAO with this one as I've heard them too many times before and I don't even have to ask who you get the questions from. You know what though, sometimes people are so inna that you can't say it nicer because they just won't get it so...this is what I usually say.
BlackMatta wrote: Now, it has come to my attention that we are blessed with a number of very diplomatically able people here on BN. I would like to take this opportunity to humbly draw on your experience in finding better ways to answer the following questions without losing the essence of what I am trying to say...
1. Go anywhere nice for your holiday? 
None of your f**king business!!
No! Even if you are.
2. Can I try some of that, please? 
Don't even think of putting your greasy paws near my lunch!
No!
3. It's OK, he won't bite, he's very friendly.
Get that grubby animal of yours on a lead before I boot it into the hedge.
It's not ok with me. Whether he does or not move it away from me.
4. Doing anything special tonight?
Mind your own f**king business!!
No!
5. Go on, give us a smile.
 What for? there's nothing to smile about.
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I noticed that the longer the response the more option there is to try and make conversation of whatever you say. I used to feel obligated to respond and kept getting caught by the ongoing questions after it that usually end up getting too personal. Usually when you say No and leave it at that, you can go about your business. No need to talk if you don't feel to. If they object or push up their face so be it, I'm sure someone else will entertian them LOL. Of course if they persist you could always switch and ask "why is it so importnat that you know?"
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Posted: Friday July 1st, 2005 13:33 |
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1. Go anywhere nice for your holiday?
NO!
2. Can I try some of that, please?
NO!
3. It's OK, he won't bite, he's very friendly.
NO, BUT I WILL!
4. Doing anything special tonight?
NO!
5. Go on, give us a smile.
NO!
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Posted: Friday July 1st, 2005 22:21 |
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Posted: Saturday July 2nd, 2005 06:29 |
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Sometimes it's not what you say, it's how you say it.
Personally I've been accused of being aggressive when someone has asked me the time, for example, and I've told them but in an agressive way. I didn't mean to, but you may have interrupted my train of thought.
Now, to your questions...
1. Go anywhere nice for your holiday?
None of your f**king business!!
I'm not sure yet. Where are you going?
2. Can I try some of that, please?
Don't even think of putting your greasy paws near my lunch!
Is that nice?
3. It's OK, he won't bite, he's very friendly.
Get that grubby animal of yours on a lead before I boot it into the hedge.
Move that fleabitten animal from me, or I'll kick it to kingdom come (some occasions do not warrant politeness!)
4. Doing anything special tonight?
Mind your own f**king business!!
Not sure yet. Are you?
5. Go on, give us a smile.
Sometimes it's best to turn the questions back unless, of course, they'll give you their entire life story!
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Posted: Saturday July 2nd, 2005 08:58 |
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So True, please can i ask that you visit http://www.fcyn.co.uk , to add your opinion on some issues with society and goverment.
Young people need help and guidance.
Just register on FCYN forum
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Posted: Saturday July 2nd, 2005 09:07 |
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BlackMatta wrote: Now, it has come to my attention that we are blessed with a number of very diplomatically able people here on BN. I would like to take this opportunity to humbly draw on your experience in finding better ways to answer the following questions without losing the essence of what I am trying to say...
1. Go anywhere nice for your holiday?
No, if you are not
Yes, if you are
If you don't want to tell them, (why I don't know!), say something like: "I'd rather not say thank you".
2. Can I try some of that, please?
"I'd rather you didn't", if you don't want them to, but why not let them try 
3. It's OK, he won't bite, he's very friendly.
Say nothing
4. Doing anything special tonight?
Yes, if you are
No, if you're not
5. Go on, give us a smile.
Smile!
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Boy it's really something when someone does not know how to be nice anymore!
Is this what is meant by the breakdown of society? Doesn't it start with people not knowing how to respect other people?
Goodness!!! 
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Posted: Saturday July 2nd, 2005 10:07 |
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@ athaba
Sis, me thinks you are taking this a little more seriously than it's intended. It's all cool really. 
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Posted: Saturday July 2nd, 2005 11:13 |
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Posted: Saturday July 2nd, 2005 13:56 |
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BM and Backatya
Well it didn't come across as a joke to me ok! lol
Anyway just for you blackmatta
In fact I'll even do a little dance for ya
hee ha!
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Posted: Saturday July 2nd, 2005 15:32 |
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Posted: Sunday July 3rd, 2005 03:15 |
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BlackMatta wrote: Now, it has come to my attention that we are blessed with a number of very diplomatically able people here on BN. I would like to take this opportunity to humbly draw on your experience in finding better ways to answer the following questions without losing the essence of what I am trying to say...
1. Go anywhere nice for your holiday?
Thought I might try Outer Mongolia this year
2. Can I try some of that, please?
Of my magic mushroom pie? Certainly!
3. It's OK, he won't bite, he's very friendly.
But he's a dog!
4. Doing anything special tonight?
Depends if the guys can get the balaclavas and the JCB
5. Go on, give us a smile.
Well...if you insist 
(Please feel free to add any further examples of handling difficult questions).
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Posted: Sunday July 3rd, 2005 07:01 |
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@ Ginger,
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Posted: Sunday July 3rd, 2005 19:02 |
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