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Posted: Wednesday December 17th, 2003 10:23 |
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hi everyone i need help
me and my ex just broke up 3 and a half month ago but ive found that i still love him and i think he does to but he said that its to complicated and that there is no point he believes that once its done its done move on but i wanna give it another try.
ive been with him for a year and 1/2 and were still intimate at times which is possibly why i feel this way about him im trying and forcing myself to move on but i cant
am i being a fool what shall i do? please help
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Posted: Wednesday December 17th, 2003 11:21 |
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Babes! said.....
.....am i being a fool what shall i do? please help
Step 1. Stop being a fool
 ....that is sufficient for now.
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Posted: Wednesday December 17th, 2003 18:32 |
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Girl I know what it feels like...but at the end of the day...if he doesnt love you there is nothing you can do!! There is no point forcing a relationship, because you are fooling yourself thinking it will work!! This guy now knows you are vulnerable and he will use this to his advantage and walk all over you...I know its hard to move on, but at the same time...hes done it already and sadly you have been left behind!!
Now remember you have to put yourself first, love yourself, then you will find that other people will admire you and treat you with the respect you deserve!!
Remember life isnt meant to be easy...learn from this experience and move on!!
I need to follow my own advice..lol
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Posted: Wednesday December 17th, 2003 22:35 |
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gal i bet ur well pretty get urself a new man, a fine looking man and forget ur ex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
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Posted: Wednesday December 17th, 2003 23:56 |
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@ Babes
If something is meant to be, it will, you have to focus on why you've finished. You would not want to be with someone that deep down did not want to get back with you.
You are in control of yourself and you should not keep sleeping with someone if you have finished. Take control of your feelings. Men see sex differently and him having sex with you does not necessarily mean he wants to get back together. If you keep on sleeping with him then you will hope he will change his mind and when he doesn't you are going to feel worse.
Or worse still you can carry on sleeping with him and then he could get a new girl....that is deep!
Sometimes it seems really difficult to move on, especially when you are used to that person. But it is harder when you hang around than when you face it being over and try to move on. It's not about pretending you don't miss him or anything, but you can't make a man tell you he doesn't want to be with you and still give yourself to him like that.
Peace~
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Posted: Thursday December 18th, 2003 00:26 |
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@Babes1
Forget about him and find out if he got a friend you can get with, then go to the other thread and ask 2REAL some advice and then Babes1+ 2REAL=3SOMEFOOL and then you all should have a ball. If that don't work check out the thread on revenage tatics and go and deal with this man properly once and for all. Then when you have done that came back and add your views on why there are no decent blackmen around but don't forget to stop by the thread Blackwomen need to fix up before you leave ok
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Posted: Thursday December 18th, 2003 05:05 |
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hmmmm, - in the short time I have been here, I noticed that virtually every problem regarding relationships, seem to be posted by women about men!!! Odd that isn't it? 
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Posted: Thursday December 18th, 2003 19:00 |
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| Athaba, lol, it's because men give us problems, headaches!!! lol, jokes.
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Posted: Friday December 19th, 2003 03:00 |
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@sassylady
you know it though!? LOL!!! lawd have mercy upon my soul eee?!
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Posted: Monday December 22nd, 2003 08:57 |
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your not being a fool i feel the same way about my gal my girl didint trust me because of her cousin and his gal so she dropped she said so it didint get far with me checkin other galsb dont u think thats wrong
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Posted: Tuesday December 23rd, 2003 20:55 |
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| Forget what everyone is saying go for your heart. If that makes you happy then go for it girl.
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Posted: Wednesday December 24th, 2003 14:51 |
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SUP,
there aint really any point in getting back with him as he just see's you as a quick bang now,once you've ended a relationship in such a way even if you did both get back together it wouldnt be the same as before for instance the trust factor ect it's hard to build back up in the wayit was before and that is just one example there are many more which i really cant be botherd to put down to be honest...just move on or settle for a sexuall relationship only...peace pak man.
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Posted: Tuesday September 7th, 2004 01:50 |
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| show him the door no matter how much the sex is sweet...it will ware off...get back yourself girl.
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Posted: Sunday December 26th, 2004 23:02 |
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You know I was in a similar situation. I was with my boyfriend for a year and a half when I broke up with him over something stupid. I was okay at first til I saw him out at a party with another girl. I was soo hurt I was crying right there in front of everyone. We talked but it was obvious he was trying to avoid looking at me though he did tell me that he still cared from me. We broke up this past April 11th (the day after his 23rd birthday) and the party happened the end of April. I was soo hurt and upset and crying all the time. My mom told me to give him time and that it will be if it's ment to be. We talked off and on til about the middle of June. I got really mad and told him that I didn't want to talk to him ever again. The entire summer we didn't talk at all (i didnt' even see him). I tried to date other people but it seemed like everyone had something about them that reminded me of him. Then this past August I contacted him to see how he was doing. Things were friendly but nothing serious. Then around the end of August, I sent him an email and basically told him how I felt and how I loved him and I was finding it impossible to move on. He called me and invited me to a party he was having. That was like our reunion. Every since then things have been good.
So I guess in short try to take a break...and if it's ment to be it will be in the end
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Posted: Tuesday January 4th, 2005 11:28 |
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HI, IF YOU ARE STILL SEEING THIS GUY FROM TIME TO TIME. ON A SEXUAL TIP. THEN BY THAT ALONE YOU ARE BEING A FOOL. FOR THE FACT THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO COME BACK FOR A RELATIONSHIP. BUT HE SURE COMES BACK FOR A WAM BAM. YOU CANT ALLOW THIS PART OF THAT RELATIONSHIP TO STILL EXIST. LEAVING HIM ROOM TO PUT YOU ON THE . HAVE YOU 2 BEEN FRIENDS BEFORE THIS? IM A GUY TAKE IT FROM ME.
DONT TAKE HALF OF WHATS GOOD. IF IT CANT BE A WHOLE. A BREAK UP CAN GET VERY EXPLOSIVE. WHEN WEAK HEARTS ARE INVOLVED.
ITS A VERY THIN LINE. SOME ONE CAN GET HEART. 
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